You may have chosen to become a guardian because no one else would and now you reap a benefit that no one else will. Think back when you first discovered you were making a difference in your guardian child or children, it may be a bit dim or very colorful, you will discover it soon. Reflect back on the first time you were smiling on the inside because you saw that youngster making a new positive path, they were obviously happy which joy then flowed into your soul. That's what I am talking about, find those moments take great satisfaction because you chose well.
I have had to use this (smile method) from time to time as I personally struggled with a parenting style that was in many ways different from raising my own children, just to make sure I was staying the course. So catching them enjoying life is our reward as guardians! Remember the good you sowed into that person(s) life and smile because you chose well.
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